The President’s Message:
I am pleased to announce that we will have a meeting on Wednesday, June
14th
at 7:00PM at the Lake Clarke Shores Town. There will be books for sale.
If you are interested in presenting a program, please see me at the
meeting.
Gerridine LaRovere
June 14, 2023 Program:
Guy Bachman will be our presenter at the June 14th
meeting. Guy has worked
with the Florida Architectural Society, Florida Anthropological Society,
and was President of the Loxahatchee Battlefield Preservation.
His topic is “Members of the military who served during the
Seminole Wars in Florida who later rose to fame during the Civil War.”
June 1, 2023 Comment:
Gerridine
has produced this small essay about
Miriam Beck Forrest Luxton.
Some people have a commanding presence and a peculiarity that eludes
prediction. Miriam was one
of them. She was born in
1802 into a family of strict Presbyterians of Scottish ancestry in South
Carolina. In 1810, they
moved to Caney Springs, Tennessee and settled on the Duck River.
At the age of eighteen Miriam married William Forrest who was a
blacksmith by trade. On
July 13, 1821 she gave birth to a set of twins — a son, Nathan and a
daughter, Frances, called Fanny by the family.
They would have a total of eleven children during their marriage.
In 1834, the Forrest family moved from Tennessee to Tippah County
in northern Mississippi that had been Indian Territory.
When they first settled in Mississippi , the nearest neighbor was
ten miles away via a very
narrow path.
William Forrest died in 1837.
By this time Miriam also lost two sons and three daughters to
“pestilent fevers.” With
her son, Nathan Bedford, and his five surviving brothers, the family
cleared and drained swamp land for farming.
Miriam remarried in 1843 to Joseph M. Luxton.
She gave birth to three more sons and one daughter.
By the beginning of the Civil War, Joseph Luxton died, and Miriam
owned and operated a successful plantation near Memphis.
During the War, family history claims that all but one son fought
for the Confederacy. None
of her other sons rose to the prominence of Nathan Bedford Forrest.
What kind of person was Miriam?
She was almost six feet tall with a large muscular frame and
weighed approximately 180 pounds.
Her eyes were a blue-grey color and she had dark brown hair.
People said that her expression was gentle and kind.
However, she possessed a no-nonsense strong-willed personality
with courage and dogged determination.
She was extremely straight forward and finished any task that she
started. Some said that she was set in her ways which were always the
right “way.” Miriam
ruled her household with an iron fist.
Although she was strict and severe with her children, it was said
that she loved them dearly.
Miriam rose before daylight in order to get everything ready for work by
the time the sun came up.
On weekdays everyone on the farm had breakfast together and often by
candlelight in order to
start doing chores early.
Miriam and her sister, Fannie Beck, spun yarn and cotton thread.
They wove the cloth on looms, made clothes and knitted socks.
They performed all the other tasks of a home maker.
The only supplies that were purchased were coffee, sugar, and
tea.
One day Miriam and Fannie visited a distant neighbor.
When they left in the late afternoon, their friend gave the
sisters a basket containing several young chickens.
Within a mile of their home in near darkness, they encountered a
panther. It had picked up
the scent of the chickens and began chasing them.
The frightened horses broke into a run over a very narrow trail.
Fannie begged Miriam to throw the chickens to the panther, but
she refused to do it. She
said that she was not going let that varmint have her chickens!
When they reached the creek near their cabin, they had to slow to a walk
in order to cross safely.
The panther sprung and clawed Miriam on the side of her neck, ripping
the clothes off her back, and leaving severe wounds.
The panther also clawed the horse who threw off the panther.
Throughout the ordeal Miriam held onto the basket of poultry.
Nathan immediately left with his dogs and tracked the panther for
miles. The dogs cornered
the animal in a tree. At
daybreak, Nathan shot it.
He cut off the ears and scalp and presented them to his mother.
In 1861, Miriam was living on the plantation near Memphis.
Her eighteen year old son, Joseph Luxton, joined the Confederate
army. On a Friday afternoon
he went to visit Miriam dressed in his spiffy new Confederate uniform.
His mother told him that he would be the one to take her corn to
the mill for grinding the next day.
Early Saturday morning he absolutely refused to take the corn to
the mill. In a flash Miriam
cut peach tree switches and thrashed him thoroughly.
A day he remembered probably for the rest of his life.
He did go to the mill.
Miriam said, ”Soldier or no soldier, my children will mind me as
long as I live.” She was a
firm believer in the proverb that if the rod is spared, the child will
be spoiled.
Ira and Eliza Camp were close friends of the family.
They left Mississippi in 1846 and settled in Navasota, Grimes
County, Texas. The Camp’s
built a stone house and an inn where Sam Houston was often a guest.
In 1863, General Forrest had his mother and her two younger
children escorted from Tennessee to the safety of Ira and Eliza Camp
Inn. Miriam always
considered the Camp family’s inn a safe haven for herself.
After the War, Miriam and her children moved to Texas.
In 1867, James Madison Luxton, a son from her second marriage, was
wanted for an undescribed crime committed in Tennessee.
He found his way to Grimes County and became a deputy sheriff.
James fell seriously in the fall of1867.
Miriam rushed by carriage to his aid.
As she stepped off the carriage in Navasota, a nail penetrated
her foot. She subsequently
suffered blood poisoning and died at Camp Inn on November 15, 1867.
She was buried in the Ira Camp family cemetery in Navasota.
In1924, the Hannibal Boone Chapter of the United Daughters of the
Confederacy placed Marker 523 on her grave in honor of her son Nathan
Bedford Forrest, a controversial figure.
Her son James survived and eventually raised a family in Uvalde County,
Texas.
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